Happy so far: The family outside our new home in Asheville.
I'm writing this post from my brand new chair at my brand new desk. In my new office in my new home, in Asheville, NC.It all feels a bit weird, but in an exciting kind of way, just as this entire move has felt.
When we told our friends and family that we were moving eight hours away, to a small city in the mountains of western North Carolina where we didn't know anybody -- and without one of the standard reasons, like a job, that generally causes a move -- the responses varied pretty wildly.
Some people thought we were crazy. Some were sad (and of course, so were we to leave them).
But a few people told me how inspiring they thought it was that we would move so spontaneously, and not because we had to, but simple because we wanted to.
And that's why I'm writing this post about our move, and about Asheville. Not just to explain our reasons for moving, but to (I hope) inspire others who feel stuck where they are but are afraid to make a change.
You'll see that it's not terribly far off topic for No Meat Athlete, either -- as far as vegeterian- and vegan-friendliness goes, Asheville beats any other city I've ever visited.
From Baltimore to Asheville, via San Diego
2011 was the first year that I did any considerable traveling. I went to Austin, Portland, Cape Cod, Boston (twice), San Francisco, and San Diego, and discovered that the world -- actually, the country -- had a lot more to offer than did Bel Air, Maryland, the nice, suburban town outside of Baltimore where I grew up and had moved back to a few years after college.
And so we decided that we'd move. Maybe not permanently, but since running a business online affords us a lot of geographical freedom, it seemed a shame not to try living somewhere other than the default option before our son reached school age and we'd want to settle down.
The funny thing is that we were within one day of signing a lease on a place in San Diego, after several weeks of planning the move. But two things caused us to abort that plan at the very last minute:
- The pain of moving our two-year-old son 3,000 miles away from his grandparents, and of being so very far away from our friends and family.
- The cost -- we discovered it would take $10,000 just to get out to California, before even considering the higher cost of living.
Just two months ago, I hadn't heard of Asheville more than a couple of times. I knew it as a funky, hippie-ish city somewhere in North Carolina, and one that consistently showed up in those "Happiest Places to Live" lists that magazines and websites post every so often.
But the night we changed our minds about San Diego, Asheville was the first place I thought of as an alternative. (By this point, the idea of staying put after so much planning and anticipation wasn't one we were willing to consider.)
Two days later, I was in the car driving to Asheville, on a dual mission to check out the city and find a place to rent if it felt right. This was immediately following a 20-mile run, so I can't say it was the most enjoyable ride I've ever taken, but my mom came with me and helped out with the drive and finding a place. Thanks Mom!
It took a day for me to come to understand what it was about Asheville that made people so happy, but sure enough, I did.
The next day, I found a place to rent, and we signed a lease and made it official just two days later.
Here's what we love about Asheville so far, in our first week of living here:
- The local food scene is amazing. Besides tons of farmers markets and a few co-ops, there are local producers of all sorts of things, even tempeh and kombucha. And lots of beer -- Asheville has 11 breweries and has been named Beer City USA three years in a row.
- It's extremely vegetarian- and vegan-friendly. I'm not exaggerating when I say I think it's even more so than much larger cities like Portland, Austin, and San Francisco. Granted, I've only explored these cities for a few days each. But a major difference I've noticed is that here, although there are plenty of all-vegetarian restaurants, even in the restaurants that aren't specifically vegetarian there are always several options for us on the menu. Some even have special vegan menus. And the servers have all been very helpful and have even reminded me when I ordered something that is non-vegan (caramelized onions on pizza, for example).
- We live in a quiet, woodsy neighborhood that's very hilly and great for running, with a park right behind our backyard. And we're only a mile from downtown, a combination I never thought I'd find anywhere.
- There are street musicians all over the place. Not just playing guitars, but also violins, banjos, cellos, basses, harmonicas, drumsets, trumpets, accordions and even crazy stuff like saws. My son, who is obsessed with music, absolutely loves this. If only they would play Weezer covers for him...
- Everything is eco-friendly. Pretty much every restaurant recycles and composts, and any coffee I've gotten to-go has come in a special, compostable cup. (I won't pretend to know why this is better than recycled paper, but I imagine it is.)
- Lots of dogs. They're even allowed in some stores and restaurants, and there are tons of pet-centric businesses.
- There's a thriving arts scene, and lots of nationally-known artists, bands, comedians, and authors come through this relatively small city (80,000 people or so). Chi Running author Danny Dreyer and well-known vegetarian cookbook author Deborah Madison will be in one of the bookstores this month. And if I knew more about art and read more fiction, I'd probably recognize a lot more of the names.
- We're surrounded by some serious mountains! We went for a drive on the Blue Ridge Parkway this weekend, and within 10 minutes we had some amazing views. And of course, there are lots of trails for running and mountain biking, but we have yet to explore any of them, other than a tiny one that's a just quarter mile from our house.
Underlying all of this, there's a friendliness and slowness to the city that we're really enjoying. I'm one of the most laid-back people I know, and yet in the coffee shops here, I feel like I'm the high-strung northerner who can't relax. But there's an acceptance of all different types of people ("It doesn't matter whether you're a businessman or a hippie," as one person told me).
All in all, it feels like this is a place where one can be centered, be creative, and find time to focus on things that really matter.
- See more at: http://www.nomeatathlete.com/asheville